Shadow work prompts can really help you to dig deep into the unseen and unheard wounds. When you take a look at what you’ve been ignoring all along, they finally heal.
The most important part of healing is acknowledgement and that’ what shadow work helps you to do.
Today we will talk about:
- What is Shadow Work?
- How does shadow work help you?
- How to start Shadow Work?
- Challenges in Shadow Work?
- 23 Powerful life Changing Shadow Work prompts
WHAT IS SHADOW WORK?
Our shadow self is the fears, the insecurities, the hidden part of us that we don’t show or share with anyone.
It’s the part of ourselves that we usually reject and don’t face easily. We get triggered when we encounter our shadow self.
All the trauma that we carry goes into the hidden parts of our identity which we are afraid to encounter because if we do, it brings up strong emotions and they are hella difficult to deal with.
From our childhood, we’re not taught healthy coping mechanisms to deal with our pain and fears and therefore, they become our trigger points which we hate to face.
Shadow work is to face this deepest, darkest part of us that we tend to ignore.
It is about healing our trauma & triggers that have been disturbing us and troubling us for years.
It’s an aid to deal with our pain which helps you to heal your blockages that you’ve been facing all along because of the heavy baggage you’ve been carrying.
HOW DOES SHADOW WORK HELP YOU
- Identify your triggers (What itches you and why)
- Understand your behaviours (Why you do What you do)
- Helps you to break the cycles (Diminishing the unhelpful patterns)
- Heal from the deep rooted fears and baggages (Release fears and heavy emotional burdens)
HOW TO START SHADOW WORK
Create a safe space:
I’m not talking about having a fancy space to heal yourself.
Creating space is about taking out time for your healing and a physical space where you won’t be disturbed during your process.
Plus, staying away from the distractions whether it’s your phone ringing from notifications or your family disturbing you (creating healthy boundaries is key)
Have a Journal:
You don’t need a fancy journal but of course if that is what hooks you, go for it! It’s all about indulging in the activity. Whatever helps, do it!
Having a separate notebook/journal to record your thoughts is so helpful.
Not only, you keep your thoughts from writing in random notebooks lying in your house but also it gives you a clean space to write to give you encouragement to do it further.
Plus, it’s so amazing to look back at your progress, all in one place.
Why I’m emphasising on this is, because I have done that; just writing wherever I wanted but it made it difficult for me to track my progress and look for certain things when I wanted.
Use Shadow work prompts:
Sometimes, it can be confusing when you’re just starting out.
It can overwhelm you to think about what to ask yourself to start with.
Getting your hands on pre-made questions can really help to write your thoughts clearly as it helps you to reflect on the right aspects of your triggers or pain points.
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Practice Self Compassion
When you’re doing shadow work, it’s so easy to judge yourself for your past mistakes and feel guilt or shame when hidden parts of you may come forward.
Don’t beat yourself up when that happens. Show love and compassion to yourself as you may show a friend.
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Be patient with yourself
Shadow work will not bring immediate results because you’re dealing with trauma of years or decades or may be who knows from past lives even.
Not only be very patient with your progress but also be consistent.
As you consistently keep on doing the much needed work, you will start seeing major changes in your life at a fundamental level because you’re dealing with the roots and it takes time for water to reach the roots. You’ve to give nutrients to the soil first.
CHALLENGES IN SHADOW WORK
As you’re doing your shadow work you might face a few challenges such as:
1. Feeling overwhelmed:
Since shadow work brings deep rooted baggage and heavy emotions to the surface, you may feel overwhelmed.
Take it one step at a time. you don’t have to do all the questions at once. you can even do just one question per day and reflect on it and then move forward.
It’s not a race you’ve to win.
It’s life. Follow your path gradually and just be consistent.
2. Guilt or Shame:
When we’re doing shadow work, certain thoughts or feelings may bring up guilt or shame when you see in your face the reality of your triggers or trauma.
In this case, you’ve to accept what has happened to heal yourself.
Self acceptance is key. Work through why you’re feeling certain emotions.
3. Resistance or Avoidance:
When too many emotions or past events come up, you may feel the need to completely avoid it or resist dealing with it.
At that time, remind yourself why you started it, what do you want to achieve from it?
Approach shadow work with curiosity rather than being afraid of it.
23 Powerful Shadow work prompts to heal yourself
- What am I feeling currently?
- Why am I feeling, what I’m feeling?
- When was the first time I experienced this feeling?
- Do I relate the trauma/trigger to that event?
- What is the pattern that I see being repeated in my life?
- When was the first time that pattern started?
- What did I experience from that event?
- What kind of emotions were evoked when I went through that event?
- Did I feel helpless/unsafe at that time? if yes, why?
- Did anyone understood me at that time/was I able to share with anyone? If no, why?
- Can I provide comfort to myself now?
- Can I acknowledge what I went through at that time?
Say to yourself: I understand you, I feel you, I’m with you. Sorry that you had to go through this alone. I’m there for you now and hug yourself tightly!
- Can I be more present for myself when I’m dealing with tough emotions?
- What is one thing/behaviour/event that triggers me the most?
- Why does it trigger me? What really happened?
- Can I forgive the person/myself for that? If yes, why? If not, why?
- Can I let go of that attachment to the negative emotion/event?
- Can I forgive the person/myself for that?
- What is it that I try to control in my life? (outcomes/people/events)
- Is controlling helping me at all?
- What is it that is not in my control?
- How can I learn to surrender where I can’t control?
- What does having faith and trusting in the universe do for me?
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In today’s post; we learned about shadow work, what it truly is, how you can start your shadow work journey and what kind of challenges you might face when you start shadow work. We also discussed how shadow work helps you and of course powerful 23 shadow work prompts to help you heal your past wounds.
If you found this post helpful, don’t forget to tell me in the comments! Also, which one did you find the most powerful?
