In today’s world, we women have over indulged in masculine tasks because of which our masculine energy has risen but has unbalanced our feminine energy.
It has not gone anywhere.
It resides within us.
But currently, it is dormant or either wounded.
As much as we’ve put efforts in working with masculine part of ourselves, we’ve left behind our divine feminine.
If currently, you’ve been feeling that you’re unsatisfied in life, your intuition has taken a hit, you feel lost and confused, you try to control the outcomes in life, these are signs that you’re not operating from your feminine power because divine feminine allows you to surrender, trust your intuition and the universe, you feel guided and connected to the universe and to your purpose.
We’ll talk about this deeply, so let’s begin.
Today we’ll talk about:
5 THINGS THAT BLOCK FEMININE ENERGY
To activate your feminine energy firstly, you will need to figure out what is really blocking it. So, let’s talk about that.
1. The need to control
The control is masculine energy and feminine energy is in surrender.
You might want to control the situations, your life, and the outcomes.
If you’ve been suppressed since childhood for not speaking up, to behave like a girl, suppress your emotions, or to even take decisions for yourself.
I’m not saying when you were very little but like in your teenage years as well.
You might now feel the need to control because you were never allowed to actually take decisions as per your wishes.
Now you may try to control everything.
Related read: How to heal your childhood wounds
2. Living in your head
If you constantly live in your head, take all the decisions just with your head or lead your life just with logic, you’re mostly living in masculine energy.
The ego brain, the head is masculine whereas the intuition is feminine.
If you’re ignoring your intuition, your feminine energy is kind of suppressed.
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3. Living in the past or future
When you’re too much living in the past or keep rethinking your past events, your far away from your feminine energy because feminine energy is in the present moment and stillness.
4. Over giving & over caring
Thinking and believing that you’re a women and you’ve to just give, care and nourish only other people is a big lie society has been telling us.
Yes, we women have the power to nourish but if we’re overgiving and over caring in our relationships, our value decreases because giving is the power of masculine whereas receiving is the power of feminine energy.
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5. Trying to achieve too much in competition/pressure-
Especially if you’ve been an elder kid in a house on whom a lot of expectations were led on, you might have felt pressured to prove your worth and try to achieve as much as possible in school or life to get validation whether from your parents or peers.
5 POWERFUL WAYS TO ACTIVATE YOUR DIVINE FEMININE
1. Leaning back and being open to receive
Start taking a step back in doing too much in your relationships and open your receive mode.
If you hate getting help from others because you feel no one can do a better job than you.
You will have to let that go. Delegate the things you can.
Start asking for help.
When you show the universe you’re actually ready to receive help, you do get that.
And when you’re open to receive, you’re automatically activating your divine feminine energy.
2. Put efforts in your appearance
I know, I know we all want to feel comfy and something that doesn’t take time but let me tell you, we women need to indulge into our beauty, looks and skincare.
It’s not possible everyday, but for days when you’ve extra time on hand; do some makeup, good skincare, facemask and yes choose more feminine outfits.
We’ve got used to wearing masculine clothing to be accepted as more valued and serious in business but when you choose flowy outfits, soft colors and put on some makeup to enhance your beauty, your venus gets activated.
This not only brings magnetism and activates your feminine energy but also more abundance and luxury.
3. Surrender
As I said before, trying to control too much can literally take away your feminine power.
Stop trying to control the outcomes or obsess over what’s going to happen or how it is going to happen.
Stop trying to control everything in your relationship as well.
Let your partner make decisions as well.
That will make him feel masculine and it will help you lean into your feminine energy and activate it.
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4. Indulge in more feminine activities
There are so many activities that can help you get in touch with your creativity and creativity is feminine energy.
Don’t lift all the heavy items, let your partner do that.
Let him open the jars for you or let him do the drilling work or the fixing part of the house.
Let the feminine flow through dance, cooking, baking, painting, decorating, gardening.
Think about your childhood hobby that you loved doing as a little girl.
Perform more of these feminine activities to let your feminine power shine and ultimately activating your feminine energy
5. Start following your heart
The day you start listening to what your intuition is saying, your life is going to change.
Your intuition is the soft nudge that you get before you make any decision or do something.
We want to be more practical in life but ultimately that takes away our happiness.
We can’t always be practical.
If you want true satisfaction in life plus if you want to make better decisions, make intuitive decisions.
It will never disappoint you in the long run.
If your intuition is saying rest, rest.
If your intuition wants to have some fun, have fun. Follow your heart’s tune.
This is the best way to activate your divine feminine energy.
These are very simple but actually very powerful ways to help you increase or activate your feminine energy. It might not happen immediately but when you start putting efforts into your self growth, it shows. Not only will you notice, but the people around you will too. And soon enough, before you could understand it, your life will start changing and everything will flow harmoniously.
